Friday, November 9, 2012

Gender

What are the responsibilities of a father?
      First of all, a father should earn enough money for the family.  Sometimes, the mother may have a job, but it is the responsibility of a father to earn money.  Secondly, a father plays an important role when the family make a decesion.  When will they buy a house?  Where should the house locate?  It is the responsibility of a father to make decesions.

What are the responsibilities of a mother?
      First of all, a mother should take care of the family members, especially the children.  Secondly, a mother should do the housework.  So there are many stay at home mothers.

Do parents expect different things from sons than from daughters?
     I think parents expect different things from sons than from daughters.  For a son, parents may hope he study hard and have a good job.  On the other hand, for  a daughter, parents may hope she grow up happily and marry with a good man. 

Are there any professions that have more women than men in your country?
     Yes, there are some professions that have more women than men in China, such as nurse, accountant, teacher and so on.  For example, I am an accountant.  When I studied in the university, there were 47 students in my class, making up of 31 girls and 16 boys.  In my department, there are 7 men and 12 women. 

Should boys and girls be brought up differently?
     Yes, I think so.  There is an old Chinese proverb that says "Daughters should be raised with an affluent life-style, while sons should be bred with an impoverished one."  This means a son should be taught how to live by himself and a daughter should be taught how to live graciously.

6 comments:

  1. Good comment!
    I know son is more important than daughter in north east asia including China-Japan-Korea. But I think that it have to change. We live in capitalistic society. To be happy in freedom we have to earn a lot of money.

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    1. THe situation in China in changing now. Although some people in county-side still think a son is more important, but there are more and more people think a son and a daughter are the same to a family. It's said that "Both boys and girls are the future of the country."

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  2. In China, do you think gender roles are changing with time? Is there a chance for equality between men and women?

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    1. I think gender roles are changing wiht time in China. Now women are more and more important in the society. In the past, most women stayed at home, but now, almost women have jobs.
      Yes, there is a chance for equality between men and women. Now, women can do anything that men can do.

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